Lord
when the time comes, remind me that i prayed this prayer: make me humble.
i belong to You; i'm pledged to You. i fail most of the time; i'm inadequate for this task of living life well; i'm not a good Lover. please remind me that i prayed this prayer, when the time comes. help me listen carefully for Your whisper.
please make me a good mirror; please work in her heart and eyes, so that she can make good decisions about her own character and personality. please help her make good decisions about our relationship.
amen
